This Little Girl Is Moving!

On September 19, Lily's teacher sent me this video.

Today, she sent me this one.  Boy, has this little girl come a long way.  Happily so!

Good Results

Just a quick post to say that today's results were good.  Not great, but we'll take good and a "see you in two months."  Numbers were down from a 3 on the stick to a 1+.  Not sure what that means, but the doctor was pleased and showed no concern.  So it looks like no sedation because no biopsy!!  Yeah!!

I'm glad to have the good results, especially since we were at the doctor's office for roughly 4 1/2 hours!  Simply put:  Lily was bagged for a urine sample. She obviously has a strong bladder because I gave her water AND her formula while there, plus, she had already had her morning formula.  We waited.  And waited.  AND WAITED!  Still no. . .um. . .filling of the bag.  Finally, over 4 hours later and 1 million glances at the bag to check and see  if it had been filled, she relieved herself.  ONLY. . .she completely missed the bag!!  Luckily, a small puddle had formed on the bed, and the doctor was able to run the stick through it to get the test results.  

This is how life goes for us.

How do we handle it?

We laugh.  

Lots to be happy about and celebrate.  No use crying over spilled pee milk.  :)

Thank you for all of the prayers!  

Much love!

Things Just Got. . .Interesting

That's what I heard from the nephrologist when I took Lily to her appointment.  It was a routine appointment, just the normal six month checkup.  This, however, was with a new doctor.  I don't know why, but her usual nephrologist quit the practice.

That just may have been a small blessing.

Usually, when we would go see the nephrologist, he would not bag Lily to get a urine sample.  To help make a long story short, let's just say that cathing Lily is very difficult, and catching her urine in a bag can take up to 2 hours.  Usually, he'd ask how she was doing and occasionally order bloodwork.

This time, probably because she was seeing a new doctor, this new doctor ordered her to be bagged for a urine sample.  Bear with me here, but Lily wasn't going to see the new doctor.  She began the session with yet another new doctor but not THE new doctor.

She was bagged, although not for a sterile catch, and we waited.

And then THE new doctor came in.  And that's when she said, "I wasn't going to see Lily today, but things just got. . .interesting."

Apparently, Lily's protein level in her urine was high.  OK. To say high, that's an understatement.  It was HIGH.  Like, off the charts high.  Over 500.  To understand how high this is, the normal amount in a random sample is normally less than 8 mg/dL.  So yes, HIGH.

According to the doctor, this could be something called nephrotic syndrome.  At the time, Lily was sick, so the doctor wants to recheck her tomorrow, since she is now well.  But then, I spoke with Lily's pediatrician, and she said the most she's ever seen it get when a child was sick was in the 30s.

So tomorrow, the recheck.  And if the protein levels are still high, Lily will have to be sedated to have a biopsy on her kidneys, so I'm a little nervous about what tomorrow is going to bring.

On the other hand, I am so thankful.  Had Lily's original nephrologist not left the practice, she probably would not have been bagged, and who knows if bloodwork would have been done.

Another good thing that may come out of this is that if Lily does have to be sedated, we're going to schedule a hearing test to be performed while under.  Lily's ear canals are so small that they can only perform a hearing test that requires sedation.

Which brings me to another blessing.  One of the physical therapists associated with Pattison's asked me if Lily could take part in a research project that she is doing.  It's called SMART, and I can't tell you what that stands for, but I can tell you that it has to do with a person's reaction to external stimuli and what that says about that child's communication.  I am in no way doing this justice with my explanation.  What I know is that Lily smelled and tasted and saw and felt and heard different things, and her reactions were recorded.  Well, we found out that Lily did not perform well on the hearing part.  We knew she couldn't hear well, but exactly how much, we didn't, and still don't, know.  And whether that is an audiology issue or a neurological issue, we don't know.  But if Lily goes for that biopsy, we will find out.

So I'm not hoping that Lily has to have the biopsy because she doesn't do that well coming out of sedation, but if she does, we will finally have a chance to get that hearing test done, and we'll be able to find out for sure how well--or how poorly--Lily can hear.  We'll also find out what's causing these protein levels to be so high.  But I'm not looking forward to that.

The Spin-a-Thon Results

What another exhilarating event!  The Spin-a-Thon, once again, held that same power that it's held for the past three years. (That's how long I've been involved with it.)  It's amazing to walk into that gym and see all the bicycles, the lights down low, the "rock concert" feel.  Music is loud, energy is high!  That energy comes from all of the spinners who are super excited to be participating in the event. . .and it's just. . .amazing!

During the Spin-a-Thon, one of the spinners who was on stage kept saying, "This is something that's bigger than we are."  And it is.  I remember one year going down the Blue Ridge Parkway.  I was alone, but I kept stopping at the different viewpoints, looking at the expanse of mountain ahead of me.  I kept thinking how tiny I felt.  I definitely viewed something that was much bigger than I was. . .am.  And oh, did His Majesty and His Beauty show.  Spin-a-Thon?  Same thing.  

I've probably said it before, but the majority of the people in that room had no connection to a special needs child.  They didn't work with them; didn't have a family member with special needs.  But they were there--spinning their hearts out!  They JUMP on the chance to be there, too!  And all of those who sponsored were the same way!  Without a hesitation, they said YES!  It's that positive, heart-felt vibe that permeated that room!  

Fundraising for the Spin-a-Thon was so exciting!  Our goal was $2,000.  With a lot of shouting out to friends and families and even strangers, we raised over $4,100!!  It was amazing to see who was supporting Lily and her little friends!  People I never expected gave!  That's powerful, my friends!

And here's the power in it:  I believe that Jesus' sacrifice was more than a saving of our sins.  It was a way to show us the power of sacrifice.  Now, I don't expect you'll find us up on that cross any time soon, but we have our own crosses that we bear.  Lots of them.  And I'm not so sure it's supposed to be about our own crosses, for our neighbors have lots of those crosses, too.  And those are the ones I think we're supposed to be concerned with.  And that's where our sacrifices (money, time, commitment, etc) come in.  We are supposed to make sacrifices for those in need, those who have crosses that are much larger than our own.  We see Jesus doing that throughout His life before even going to the cross. Personally, I believe that people who have special needs have some pretty large crosses.  If you donated to the Spin-a-Thon--heck, if you donated to or did something for ANY charity or anyone in need--, you made a sacrifice.  Think of it this way:  that $20 that you gave, could have bought you a blouse instead.  That $50?  It could have taken your family out to eat.  Did you give more?  You could have done something pretty nice with that money.  But all who gave were willing to sacrifice something else for a small school in Charleston that serves special needs children.  And many who gave have not even met Lily or any of the other children who attend Pattisons!  And that is pretty powerful to me.  And I thank you for it!

Overall, the Spin-a-Thon raised over $273,000!  More than $50,000 over last year!  That money goes to support the summer camp, and anything left over goes to the school.  Wow!  So exciting!

So yes, if you donated, thank you so much!  You helped make the Spin-a-Thon a successful event--one that would not have been so successful without your help!  We send lots of love your way!

Here's a picture of the gym before the Spin-a-Thon began.

Here's a picture of the whole family during the rock concert. . .I mean, Spin-a-Thon.

Lily getting on the bicycle to ride around the gym.

Now that's more like it!

Lots of love Trisomy 18-style goes out from Lily to all who donated
and all who participated in Pattison's Spin-a-Thon!
We could not have done it without you!

It's Magical

This is Sarah, not Lily.  But every time I watch this video, I can't help but think, "This could be Lily."  I think this because it's just the way that Pattison's is.  It's magical.  And if you don't believe me, watch this video.

This is Lily.  Her teacher sent this video to me just the other day.  When Lily began going to Pattison's in September, she was crawling.  Slowly.  She now crawls much faster. . .with a purpose.  Just the other night, she was playing with a ball.  As it got away from her, she would crawl around the room to get it.

That's the best example, but so much more is going on.  The other day, she took a sip of water from a cup and swallowed it!  She transfers objects from hand to hand.  She cruises the couch with assistance.  She purposefully reaches for objects that she's dropped.

That's the magic of Pattison's.  Because before September, Lily was not doing these things.  Every day she gets stronger, more aware.  It's like they wave a magic wand, and POOF! there's another area of improvement.

What's even better is that it's not just Lily who is affected.  There are 31 other children with severe disabilities who attend Pattison's.  They, too, get the magic.  It's so beautiful!

On Saturday, Pattison's will have its annual spin-a-thon.  The spin-a-thon raises money for both their summer camp and the school.  Some friends of mine (and Rani and Autumn) and I will be spinning for this fundraiser.  Our goal is to raise $2000.  We are 98% there!  If you have been inspired by Lily's story, won't you please consider donating?  Donations are tax deductible, and obviously, they go to a good cause.

Donations can be made at www.firstgiving.com/fundraiser/brenda-reagan/pedal-4-pattisons-2014.  That's our team's page.  We thank you, in advance, for considering!  So does Lily.  Here's a picture that was taken at school.  Isn't she so beautiful!  Oh, and happy!  She really LOVES her school!

Just a quick update

Lily is doing well and loving school!  I just cannot express how great it is that she is there.  I don't think I posted this, but there was one day when I was leaving the school, and a few of the teachers/therapists were packing bake-sale items in a car.  As one of the teachers was leaving, she told yelled out to the others, "I love you."  REALLY!  I've never seen a group with such a great relationship.  And the principal is such a great leader.  He has worked so hard for Lily to be at the school and is definitely her fighter!

Already, this school has recommended that Lily see an orthopedist (which she already does), has gotten her "pringle" inserts for her SMO's, and is helping us decide if we want to go with a stroller or a wheelchair.  Currently, we have a wheelchair on loan, and I have to say that Lily looks great in it!  Her posture is so much better in it than in what we have--a feeder seat that sits in a bigger umbrella-type stroller.

Lily is now less than a pound away from hitting the big 3.0., which is a big deal for us since she seemed to hover around 20 for so long.  She's getting so tall, too!  She's crawling faster and getting so strong!

As for the orthopedist mentioned above, it seems that Lily has a little kyphosis.  We've known this, but it didn't seem to be an issue when she was first seen for it.  Well, it has become an issue, so Lily will be getting a soft brace to wear when she is mobile.  She's been measured and cast for it, but we haven't gotten it yet.  From what I've seen of another child's soft brace, this brace really isn't soft.  Hopefully, though, it won't inhibit Lily's crawling.  I'm telling you, she's a mover!

Time to go.  I have a little one here who decided she'd rather play with Mommy than with Lily's shoes.

A Perfect Fit

Lily is fitting right in at Pattison's!  She loves it, and they love her.  What a good feeling!  It's not that we disliked anyone at her old school, but there was always this feeling that they had to take her--which they did, by law.  If she wasn't there, the better for them.  (That was the overall feeling.  Lily loved and was loved, especially by her aide.  Like I said, there was just this feeling.)

Lily started school on a Wednesday in September.  It was just a half day for her because the principal wanted us to meet with the teacher and Lily's team of therapists and explain her care.  So she began at 11.  Thursday was also a half day.  This time, Lily went home early because she was sick.  She missed on Friday.  How nice it was to get a call TWICE that weekend from both her teacher and the nurse, wondering how Lily was doing!  After that Friday, it's been full time, every day!  She's a toughie, though.  She's staying awake, working hard, and charming everyone there.

When I go to pick her up, there's usually someone playing with her.   A few days ago, she was sitting in her stroller, kicking one of the faculty, and laughing as she was kicking!  Lily is usually more of a social laugher, so it was heartwarming to see her laughing while playing.  Then yesterday, when I picked her up, she was sitting in another person's lap.  This girl was a student OT, and she went on about how precious and happy Lily is.  Then she said. . .are you ready for this?. . .that Lily was so SMART!  Can you imagine my surprise to hear that?  I mean, we hear lots of positive things about Lily, but "smart" is not one of those words that we hear. 

This is the right place for Lily.  She is so happy there.  I still can't believe that she got in.  I'm excited to see what the year holds for her.  We've seen quite the improvement already!  She's wanted.  And that makes such a big difference!